Many decisions are made out of fear and judgement, guilt or manipulation. We want to stay in our comfort zone and don't ruffle any feathers, even if that means that we are unhappy.
Within the last month I have taken a walk down the memory lane and I have realized that I have always followed my gut. My faith showed me the way. There was no place for doubt.
💫 I came to USA 20 years ago, didn't speak English and got married to a complete stranger. People said that I was using Robert to get a green card. So I came up with a comeback, I started telling a story (with a straight face) that Bob ordered me from the Russian 👰♀ magazine and I was on sale that month 🤣😂🤣. Imagine Bob's surprise when I learned English language and he realized how fiery and unapologetically fearless my mouth is 🔥🔥🔥.
💫My family and friends thought that I have married an old fart for millions of dollars 😂. I'm still waiting for all those 100 mil mansions to show up on my real estate portfolio.
💫Last month, both of us made a decision to change jobs. I have left YL and I'm very excited for future plans. Some are set in stone, others are being explored as future opportunities 🙌 .
💫When making big life decisions, they need to make sense to me, not the world. Just like our marriage.
💫I listen to my gut. If it says that something is off, it's probably true. It's a sign for me to get out of my comfort zone. So off I go....into the new adventure.